brutal honesty: I block 'phobes and if they pull their head out of their ass later I don't go looking to forgive
I don't give a shit if you think it's perfomative or "not understanding" your culture's systemic queerphobia. you got your bozo bit flipped. fix your shit.
if the day ever came that multiple people you personally wronged say you've changed, then I'll give a shit.
but 'phobes drop neat little "oh I'm so sorry" blankets that are meant to placate queers all the time
like someone I had to block said about white ppl: they'll all SAY they're not queerphobes.
their actions tell you the truth.
ex-'phobes who demonstrate no outreach, no connection, no understanding beyond a cheap little apology that their mountain of an ego said would get them out of trouble? don't need that shit. lowest common denominator.
(and yes trans is in queer. solidarity over your ego any day.)
quick heads-up:
* I block fash
* I block people arguing the fash deserve rights
* yes even basic rights, AFAIC they should be very happy humanity allows them to live at only the cost of keeping their race-war-baiting piece of shit "opinions" to themselves
* no I don't care if this rustles your little bro (or bro-ette) marbles downstairs, just block me
* I block shitheads
* I block hypocrites
If that's true, da Vinci didn't have to spend 10,000+ hours to master each thing. He spent all of his time mastering one. The rest came from it or were tools learned to become more efficient.
So, really. Almost all that productivity stuff is bullshit. As long as you know what tools for learning work for you and you know what your core interest is. You could be a da Vinci too.
How conspiracy theories in the U.S. became more personal, more cruel, and more mainstream after the Sandy Hook shootings https://www.niemanlab.org/2022/01/how-conspiracy-theories-in-the-u-s-became-more-personal-more-cruel-and-more-mainstream-after-the-sandy-hook-shootings/
Greater wisdom has never been written.
http://www.basicinstructions.net/basic-instructions/2022/1/6/how-to-be-yourself
@ljwrites hearing about “punching up” and “punching down” was a real turning point in my politics. I love when a simple idea, a couple of words, have a massive impact on how you feel about our societies and/or on how your articulate the feelings you already had for years.
just another hacker chick with laser eyes and LASERMOUF
perpetual n00b in perpetual n00btion
UNAPOLOGETIC ABYSS ON MAIN
not around as much, not anywhere else. you never saw this anyway