Mystery Babylon @erosdiscordia@hackers.town

Here's my #transdayofvisibility picture!

I'm a trans guy, with a nonbinary soul, and I've been on T for nearly 3.5 years now! I go by either he/him or they/them pronouns. I'd like to explore different ideas of what it means to be male, and to make the whole experience more loving and fun, dammit!

I'm thrilled to have made it all the way to 41 years old, and glad we are living in a time with greater acceptance. We've always been around! :)

Been thinking it over.

If I'm interacting with you, I am going to stay civil, pretty much no matter what. If I'm triggered, I might leave the conversation, but I won't attack you personally.

I expect the same back. Civility.

Even if we're talking about touchy stuff. Even if things feel like they're going off the rails. Even if someone harmed you in the past, and our conversation reminds you of it. I still expect civility.

Why? Because you can't see the great lengths I'm going to, behind this screen, to give it to you.

If you can't do it, please just block me now. Do us both a favor. I will miss you, but neither of us will miss the harm.

Suppose it's time to renew my gentle personal request for Content Warnings (CW):

Politics
US politics
Brexit
Family holiday, positive or negative
Drug and substance use
Dysphoria & trans problems
Abuse
Money asks

I am absolutely gonna read a lot of these anyway, but I sure could use that extra moment to strengthen my heart.

Boosts ok. 💜​ and thank you for helping me.

Sometimes I wonder whether people will get tired of me posting "Mo Dao Zu Shi / Untamed" fan wanking on main.

But how could you really mind?

I could really use some trans & ally solidarity today.

Another website I like a lot has had a couple of freeze-peach "questioners" in the past couple days, and I feel like curling up. The mods there are great, but...

Morning party people. Boy, do I have a hell of a study list for the next six months.

All free though, so that's nice.