people being assholes about toilets again
I see the “genders matter because toilets” discourse is making the rounds again. It’s so unbelievably creepy the degree to which people are obsessed with who pees where
I’m a cis man. I have seen plenty of women pop into “men’s rooms” when need was urgent and lines were long. No one cared.
As a parent, there were plenty of times I had to use a “women’s room” to change my kids or supervise early toilet use. No one thought I was there to attack anyone, no one freaked out — and I’m a big scary bearded cis dude.
But trans folks want to use the right toilet and people suddenly are Very Concerned? Sorry, bullshit.
people being assholes about toilets again
@loppear yeah the idea of gendered toilets in general has a weirdly prudish history
people being assholes about toilets again
@calcifer
Yes to all of those points, and also in every way except a little bit of (actual) plumbing cost and some crowd management (stadiums, idk about schools between classes, it's all pretty controlling or demeaning anyways) factors, single-stall any-gender toilets are preferred by all humans. It's like the open plan office humbug but for our genitals, stop it cheap bosses!